What is an activity you engage in now that would be shocking to your controlling former partner?

One thing I now engage in that my controlling ex-partner would likely find shocking is embracing my passion for solo travel. During our relationship, they often discouraged or outright forbade me from traveling alone, citing safety concerns or questioning my ability to manage on my own. Now, free from those constraints, I have taken the opportunity to explore new destinations on my terms. This includes planning my itineraries, making spontaneous decisions, and immersing myself in cultures with complete autonomy. Solo travel has become an empowering experience, fostering confidence and self-reliance, starkly contrasting the strict limitations imposed in my past relationship. Each journey becomes an act of independence and self-exploration, things I highly value now but were stifled when I was under my ex’s controlling influence.